April 26, 2007

Infidelity

Infidelity-Failure loyalty, such as marriage.
The quality of being unfaithful

Infidelity is an action: an individual who is in a relationship who then seek's for sexual relationship's behind their partner's back. e.g. Bill Clinton, John major, Hugh grant, because of lust or revenge or for what ever reason.
I think that cheating is wrong.
Infidelity happens in many cultures in society but i personally think cheating happens more in western society for what ever reason's i haven't come to the conclusion yet......
Do people hold the same value's?
Infidelity happens because an individual has no respect for them selves or their partner.
If you're in a relationship with your partner and there are problem's in that relationship and children are involved then i believe that you and your partner should sit down and discuss these problem's before one cheats. think about your children on what your action might do to them, but in another way if you and your partner have major problem's try and work them out if not then there is no reason why two people should stay together if they are making each other unhappy.
Some couples class infidelity as a norm in society today but to other's this action is not acceptable as one is suppose to be faithful in a relationship and be committed.
Relationship's are first built on love and trust. what ever happened to people having a conscience and respecting them selves today?

1 comment:

Louise-ann said...

I like you to think about the comments that you have made.
In my opinion not all affairs are sexually orientated. If you have watched 'Sleeping with the Enemy', the wife only afraid of her husband and the affair was refuge from her troubled marriage. The man that she got involved with was a comfort to her rather than lust.

Don't get me wrong I agree that being unfaithful in any type of relationship is wrong but I want you to look at the other issues surrounding 'why' people choose to commit Infidelity.
Further more your point about Infidelity being common in western society I think is wrong. I think you are misinformed about what love is. If you love someone else regardless of you situation (married) you will pursue the person that you are in love with.
What do you mean by the NORM?
Do you really believe that some people see Infidelity as the norm?
I believe people in some cultures agree to multiple partners but that is as far as it goes. I think that if you have ever been cheated on you would have a better understanding of this issue. Speaking for experience if you really and truly love some one you learn to cope but you never condole this behaviour.